To obtain what you truly desire, you must first confront the fear of expressing your wants clearly. This fear often stems from vulnerability—revealing what you want equips others with the power to either grant or deny it, which can be painful. However, concealing your desires entirely ensures you will never receive them. This principle also applies to self-awareness: if you avoid defining your goals and identity clearly, you can create excuses for failure, but at the cost of authentic growth and fulfillment.